Recently a Reddit thread asked users, “What did a crush do that made you immediately lose interest?”

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The thread got a ton of comments as people revealed what their crush did that turned them completely off. Here are some of the best responses:

#1 Stealing tips from bartenders.
“He would steal people’s tips off the bar counter when we were with friends. Then he would offer to buy me food with it. No thank you.”
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#2 Littering.
“We were driving down the road and she threw a Starbucks cup right out the window.“
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#3 Being rude to a server.
“He snapped his fingers at a female server, and then as I watched mortified, he whistled.”
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#4 Not being faithful.
“He let it slip that he was cheating on his S.O. by getting together with me which killed that crush feeling dead.”
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#5 Being rude to animals.
“He was pretty rude to and consistently teased his roommate’s dog.“
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#6 Taking too long to text back.
“We would be great in person but trying to get a text back took days. I massively lost interest after this.”
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#7 Playing hard to get.
“If you’re gonna ghost me for days at a time and then get pissed off when I don’t respond to you in a matter of seconds, then that’s not my problem.”
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#8 Being a gold digger.
“She told me her future plans were to essentially become a gold digger like her mother. When I laughed it off, she couldn’t see what I thought was so funny.“
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#9 Asking for a wingman.
“They asked me to be their wingman because they had a crush on my best friend.”
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#10 Justifying cheating.
“They gave me a five minute lecture on conditions where cheating is okay.”
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#11 Spiking drinks at a wedding.
“He talked about how he wanted to loosen up some boring family at a wedding reception, so he spiked their drinks with party drugs.”
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#12 Throwing a childish fit.
“He seemed totally normal until I met him at his house before a date and his mom asked him to take the garbage out before we left. He threw a fit that would embarrass most three-year-olds including crying, yelling at his mom, and punching the floor.“
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#13 Interrupting people while speaking.
“He would ask me questions about myself, then cut me off in the middle of my answer to talk about himself.“
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#14 Talking about other people they’re seeing.
“She bragged about how she was leading on a few guys so that she always had a backup.”
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#15 Being classist.
“While driving me home, he pointed to a homeless man crossing the street at a stop light and said, ‘I would stop my car for anybody crossing the street, just not homeless men. Where do they have to be? They’re in no hurry.’“
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#16 Being too self-involved.
“I went on a date with them and they didn’t ask me anything about myself. It was completely one-sided like a job interview or something.”
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#17 Dating a friend.
“He started dating one of my friends after I told her that I had a crush on him.“
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#18 Not believing the earth is round.
“She said she was a flat earther.“
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Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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